My husband and I fought over a box of printer, these past few days he is in the mood of cleaning and throwing boxes outside of our apartment. That includes the boxes of juicer, electric grill, camera, printer, blender and many more. I asked for the box of printer because I just thought I am going to need it if I would like to send the printer home if he will give it to me when we need to move to a new place.
I have asked him many times, I used too many please and I almost beg for the box but his neck is very stiff to no. I came to the point that I felt very hurt and I want to explode so I started throwing tantrums like a two years old.
With him very disappointed with my actuation told me I am not going to be back in Korea anymore after our short vacation. Unlike those previous times that he told me that same thing, this time I didn’t cry, I just smile and says thank you. I am already used in to it and I think if he is really serious nothing could change his mind so be it.
Anyway like most relationships ours is not perfect, we always argue but we always end making up. Since I got married I learned on how to lower my pride and I always make sure that before we sleep we are already on peace, well I guess that’s the reason why my husband likes teasing me so much because he knows no matter how he made me angry I will raise a white flag.
Arguing, fighting and misunderstanding is part of almost relationship to make it alive and healthy. Some relationship fails because no one want to accept their fault and lower their pride. In order a relationship succeed one should listen while the other is speaking.